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		<title>By: Sharon</title>
		<link>http://www.getpaidtowriteonline.com/talk-to-me-darn-it/#comment-1673</link>
		<dc:creator>Sharon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 11:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good call, Deb. I understand that things happen but it would have been nice to know a little earlier. I hope my previously spotless track record with this client will keep me in her good books.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good call, Deb. I understand that things happen but it would have been nice to know a little earlier. I hope my previously spotless track record with this client will keep me in her good books.</p>
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		<title>By: otherdeb (Deb Wunder)</title>
		<link>http://www.getpaidtowriteonline.com/talk-to-me-darn-it/#comment-1672</link>
		<dc:creator>otherdeb (Deb Wunder)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 13:42:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ James:  The thing is, the reason isn&#039;t the issue here.  Everyone has to break their word, blow a deadline, etc., occasionally.  The thing is, when that happens, you let the people counting on you  know as soon as possible, before the problem becomes too hard to fix.

Admittedly, this is a bit of a hot button for me right now.  If you look at my blog, you can see a prime example.  My roommate got scammed and blew her share of this month&#039;s rent.  This meant, in part, that I had to call someone, with whom I had just repaired years of problems and tell him that I would be a week late paying him back.  I dreaded making that phone call, but I did it anyway...and the response was just about what I had expected it would be.  After my friend had a day to calm down, though, he agreed that I had to have been dreading making the call, and that I got points for making the call anyway.  He&#039;s not happy about having to wait for the money, but my integrity is less damaged for letting him know immediately that there was a problem so he could make what arrangements he needed to to work around things.

otherdeb (Deb Wunder)&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://otherdeb.wordpress.com/2008/06/29/how-my-roommate-accidentally-blew-this-months-rent/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How my roommate accidentally blew this monthâ€™s rent&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ James:  The thing is, the reason isn&#8217;t the issue here.  Everyone has to break their word, blow a deadline, etc., occasionally.  The thing is, when that happens, you let the people counting on you  know as soon as possible, before the problem becomes too hard to fix.</p>
<p>Admittedly, this is a bit of a hot button for me right now.  If you look at my blog, you can see a prime example.  My roommate got scammed and blew her share of this month&#8217;s rent.  This meant, in part, that I had to call someone, with whom I had just repaired years of problems and tell him that I would be a week late paying him back.  I dreaded making that phone call, but I did it anyway&#8230;and the response was just about what I had expected it would be.  After my friend had a day to calm down, though, he agreed that I had to have been dreading making the call, and that I got points for making the call anyway.  He&#8217;s not happy about having to wait for the money, but my integrity is less damaged for letting him know immediately that there was a problem so he could make what arrangements he needed to to work around things.</p>
<p>otherdeb (Deb Wunder)&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://otherdeb.wordpress.com/2008/06/29/how-my-roommate-accidentally-blew-this-months-rent/" rel="nofollow">How my roommate accidentally blew this monthâ€™s rent</a></p>
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		<title>By: Sharon</title>
		<link>http://www.getpaidtowriteonline.com/talk-to-me-darn-it/#comment-1671</link>
		<dc:creator>Sharon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 12:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Rebecca. I&#039;ve been lucky and it hasn&#039;t happened that often. Thanks for the offer and I will keep you in mind if it does.

@ Patrick: It goes with the territory. Sometimes new people let you down, in which case you don&#039;t work with them again. When it&#039;s an established writer, you need to find out what&#039;s happened.

@James: Believe me, I think it must be something like that, because this person is usually reliable. It would have been nice if she had taken a couple of seconds to communicate, though.

@ Allena: I&#039;ve found myself in that situation, and sometimes you have to come clean with clients. I usually try to sort it out without doing that, though.

@ Dana: I know this has happened to you and you&#039;ve had to work through the night to make up the shortfall. Not fun.

@ Sue: The other writer managed to finish the articles today, and the client was understanding as I&#039;ve always delivered early before.

@ Katherine: Leading a team is not for the faint hearted, that&#039;s for sure. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Rebecca. I&#8217;ve been lucky and it hasn&#8217;t happened that often. Thanks for the offer and I will keep you in mind if it does.</p>
<p>@ Patrick: It goes with the territory. Sometimes new people let you down, in which case you don&#8217;t work with them again. When it&#8217;s an established writer, you need to find out what&#8217;s happened.</p>
<p>@James: Believe me, I think it must be something like that, because this person is usually reliable. It would have been nice if she had taken a couple of seconds to communicate, though.</p>
<p>@ Allena: I&#8217;ve found myself in that situation, and sometimes you have to come clean with clients. I usually try to sort it out without doing that, though.</p>
<p>@ Dana: I know this has happened to you and you&#8217;ve had to work through the night to make up the shortfall. Not fun.</p>
<p>@ Sue: The other writer managed to finish the articles today, and the client was understanding as I&#8217;ve always delivered early before.</p>
<p>@ Katherine: Leading a team is not for the faint hearted, that&#8217;s for sure. <img src='http://www.getpaidtowriteonline.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: katherine</title>
		<link>http://www.getpaidtowriteonline.com/talk-to-me-darn-it/#comment-1670</link>
		<dc:creator>katherine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 05:22:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hearing stories like this makes me realize that I just don&#039;t have the stomach to form my own writing team! I&#039;m sorry this has happened to you. :(

katherine&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://katherinehuether.com/keeping-track-of-all-those-accounts-spreadsheets-are-my-friend/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Keeping Track of All Those Accounts - Spreadsheets are My Friend!&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hearing stories like this makes me realize that I just don&#8217;t have the stomach to form my own writing team! I&#8217;m sorry this has happened to you. <img src='http://www.getpaidtowriteonline.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>katherine&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://katherinehuether.com/keeping-track-of-all-those-accounts-spreadsheets-are-my-friend/" rel="nofollow">Keeping Track of All Those Accounts &#8211; Spreadsheets are My Friend!</a></p>
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		<title>By: sue Jeffels</title>
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		<dc:creator>sue Jeffels</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 23:30:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry that has happened Sharon, hope you manage to get it sorted out without too much trouble.

sue Jeffels&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://writeforcash.squarespace.com/journal/2008/6/26/a-mothers-lament.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Mother&#039;s Lament&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry that has happened Sharon, hope you manage to get it sorted out without too much trouble.</p>
<p>sue Jeffels&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://writeforcash.squarespace.com/journal/2008/6/26/a-mothers-lament.html" rel="nofollow">A Mother&#8217;s Lament</a></p>
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		<title>By: Dana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 21:35:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry to hear it, Sharon. I&#039;ve been there and it&#039;s awful. I hope it all works out ok.
Dana

Dana&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://danaprince.blogspot.com/2008/06/when-do-you-do-your-self-promotion.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;When Do You Do Your Self-Promotion?&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry to hear it, Sharon. I&#8217;ve been there and it&#8217;s awful. I hope it all works out ok.<br />
Dana</p>
<p>Dana&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://danaprince.blogspot.com/2008/06/when-do-you-do-your-self-promotion.html" rel="nofollow">When Do You Do Your Self-Promotion?</a></p>
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		<title>By: Allena</title>
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		<dc:creator>Allena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 19:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel ya. Keep in mind that life (sh--) happens to people. Example: at the end of May, my little brother ended up unexpectedly at the hosptial in my city (he&#039;s not from around here) for three days. So my mother and 90 year old grandmother stayed at my house. After they left, I had 2 days to catch up before a 14 day trip to NYC. I am STILL recovering from that trip, and supposed to fly out on another trip THIS FRIDAY. Oh, and did I mention I was NASTY sick Thurs and Fri?? BAH.

Still, the person should tell you. I don&#039;t know about others, though, but I hate hate hate telling people about my private life issues. They always feel like excuses. Sound like excuses. I mean, if you were me, would you want to share all this with clients? I didn&#039;t.

Allena&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://freelancewrite.about.com/b/2008/06/23/thanks-job-lists-are-fixed.htm&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Thanks! Job Lists Are Fixed&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel ya. Keep in mind that life (sh&#8211;) happens to people. Example: at the end of May, my little brother ended up unexpectedly at the hosptial in my city (he&#8217;s not from around here) for three days. So my mother and 90 year old grandmother stayed at my house. After they left, I had 2 days to catch up before a 14 day trip to NYC. I am STILL recovering from that trip, and supposed to fly out on another trip THIS FRIDAY. Oh, and did I mention I was NASTY sick Thurs and Fri?? BAH.</p>
<p>Still, the person should tell you. I don&#8217;t know about others, though, but I hate hate hate telling people about my private life issues. They always feel like excuses. Sound like excuses. I mean, if you were me, would you want to share all this with clients? I didn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Allena&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://freelancewrite.about.com/b/2008/06/23/thanks-job-lists-are-fixed.htm" rel="nofollow">Thanks! Job Lists Are Fixed</a></p>
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		<title>By: James Chartrand - Men with Pens</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Chartrand - Men with Pens</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 18:22:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually, my first thought when I read this was, &quot;Did the writer have a car accident? Did her mother die? Did his son break an arm? Did the person fall sick and get rushed to the hospital?&quot;

Working with a team, I know very well how it feels when a deadline comes and goes and how much pressure the situation can cause. In the years I&#039;ve been doing this, though, there has been only one single case of a person deliberately screwing up.

Everyone else has had good reason. Assuming that they don&#039;t doesn&#039;t help anyone. Just a thought.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, my first thought when I read this was, &#8220;Did the writer have a car accident? Did her mother die? Did his son break an arm? Did the person fall sick and get rushed to the hospital?&#8221;</p>
<p>Working with a team, I know very well how it feels when a deadline comes and goes and how much pressure the situation can cause. In the years I&#8217;ve been doing this, though, there has been only one single case of a person deliberately screwing up.</p>
<p>Everyone else has had good reason. Assuming that they don&#8217;t doesn&#8217;t help anyone. Just a thought.</p>
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		<title>By: Patrick Britton</title>
		<link>http://www.getpaidtowriteonline.com/talk-to-me-darn-it/#comment-1663</link>
		<dc:creator>Patrick Britton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 00:53:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Isn&#039;t it sad that some people have absolutely no integrity? Even writing for myself I get edgy if I get close to a deadline and I&#039;m not finished yet. It&#039;s a hard lesson to learn but you now know that the person can&#039;t be trusted unless, God forbid, something tragic happened that stopped them from getting it done.

Sorry to hear that happened, I guess that&#039;s part of running a business.

Patrick Britton&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheDailyConservative/~3/321188794/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Discussing The Supreme Court Decisions: Open Thread Friday&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isn&#8217;t it sad that some people have absolutely no integrity? Even writing for myself I get edgy if I get close to a deadline and I&#8217;m not finished yet. It&#8217;s a hard lesson to learn but you now know that the person can&#8217;t be trusted unless, God forbid, something tragic happened that stopped them from getting it done.</p>
<p>Sorry to hear that happened, I guess that&#8217;s part of running a business.</p>
<p>Patrick Britton&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/TheDailyConservative/~3/321188794/" rel="nofollow">Discussing The Supreme Court Decisions: Open Thread Friday</a></p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca Laffar-Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca Laffar-Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 17:21:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*grimaces* There is always the risk of this happening when sub-contracting. The important thing to learn is to have means available should things not go to plan. It is important to structure a line of communication that keeps you in the loop with plenty of reaction time should something start to crumble.

Make sure you take deep breaths before confronting the writer who fell behind. Imagine if something had come up and caused the situation to be reversed. Wait until you know all the facts before reprimanding. Then make it very clear exactly how this has affected you, your business, and your business relationship with this person.

*hugs* I hope everything works out and you have smooth sailing on this commission the rest of the way. Here is to uneventful sub-contracting in the future.

Oh, and keep me in mind too. ;-)

Rebecca Laffar-Smith&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.writersroundabout.com/2008/06/do-you-schedule-your-day.html/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Do You Schedule Your Day?&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*grimaces* There is always the risk of this happening when sub-contracting. The important thing to learn is to have means available should things not go to plan. It is important to structure a line of communication that keeps you in the loop with plenty of reaction time should something start to crumble.</p>
<p>Make sure you take deep breaths before confronting the writer who fell behind. Imagine if something had come up and caused the situation to be reversed. Wait until you know all the facts before reprimanding. Then make it very clear exactly how this has affected you, your business, and your business relationship with this person.</p>
<p>*hugs* I hope everything works out and you have smooth sailing on this commission the rest of the way. Here is to uneventful sub-contracting in the future.</p>
<p>Oh, and keep me in mind too. <img src='http://www.getpaidtowriteonline.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Rebecca Laffar-Smith&#8217;s last blog post..<a href="http://www.writersroundabout.com/2008/06/do-you-schedule-your-day.html/" rel="nofollow">Do You Schedule Your Day?</a></p>
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