How do you Write When You’re Feeling Lousy?

by Dana Prince on March 12, 2010 · 14 comments

in writing business

I’m sick this week.  (I sound a little less today like the Otrivin commercial though, “I hab a bad head code“) It’s not fun to be sick when you can’t really take a sick day. I have deadlines and projects I’m in the midst of, and that’s a drag. All freelance writers and anyone who is self-employed knows that the lack of paid sick days is one of the drawbacks of working for yourself.   What to do?

Do Your Best

I am soldiering on as best as possible. A few repeat clients are aware and some have relaxed deadlines. Newer clients don’t need to know unless I have to tell them, either because they want a conference call but I don’t want them to listen to me cough my brains out, or because I need extra time to do something.  If you can take a day off, do it. If you can’t, just do your best. Take breaks, and have comforts nearby (tissue, ginger ale, throat lozenges, soup, and fuzzy slippers).

Ask for Understanding

If you’re really ill, you may need to ask for a deadline extension or turn down some projects. While you don’t have anyone to cover for you, you may be just totally unable to finish a project. I can manage (albeit slowly) with my head cold and wicked cough but work  tasks, especially creative ones, are taking longer. I am also trying to make sure I carefully proofread because I’m in a bit of a haze. If this were the stomach flu, clearly I wouldn’t be able to work at all. A team member of mine had an allergic reaction to  medicine the other day and got put in the hospital so had her spouse e-mail me. Not great, since I’m already pressed for time moving in slow motion but obviously, I couldn’t be upset with her so I have to think my clients are going to be somewhat understanding if I’m in a position where I really just cannot work. If you’re sick and just can’t work, there’s not much you can do but hope your customers will be understanding. They may need to find someone else for the gig. They may be back. Maybe not. If you have a decent track record, most will show some compassion.

Don’t Neglect Your Health

Some self-employed people work themselves into an early grave by neglecting themselves in favour of their business. We all need to remind ourselves once in a while that while it’s great to love what we do, we do need to put ourselves first.   Without health, we have nothing — especially not creativity.

-xo

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{ 14 comments }

Sharon Hurley Hall
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March 12, 2010 at 09:10

Tell me about it, Dana; I hurt my shoulder on Wednesday but have had to sit and type instead of curling up in a ball. Painkillers and the realisation that I can’t do it all have helped a bit. Your last point is especially important, though, freelancers need to know when it’s time to stop and rest. Missing those signals could put you out of commission for even longer.

Susan A. Langford March 13, 2010 at 13:49

I hope your feeling better!

Dana Prince
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March 12, 2010 at 09:14

Too right! So sorry about your shoulder, Sharon. We’re certainly a fine pair this week!
Feel better soon.
Dana

Sharon Hurley Hall
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March 16, 2010 at 13:14

Thanks, Dana. You too.

Wendy Sullivan March 12, 2010 at 13:39

Oh Honey, feel better soon! I actually missed a journo gig last night because, er, I was unable to move from the general vicinity of my bathroom. Ahem.

Being sick sucks when you are your own boss.

Wendy
.-= Wendy Sullivan´s last blog ..Topless Wednesday: What I’m Reading =-.

Rebecca Laffar-Smith March 12, 2010 at 22:11

Aww Dana, I hope you feel better soon. And that your shoulder heals quickly, Sharon.

I’ve learned that sometimes I just have to say, “I can’t do this, right now.” Working with Bipolar I have good days but I also have a lot of bad days. I used to get angry with myself when I couldn’t function on a bad day. I used to get frustrated at my “uselessness” and the sense of “disability”. It wasn’t fair that I couldn’t just be normal.

Eventually, I learned that it was just a part of life that I had to accept and work with. It created a boundary, but I learned what I can push myself to do, and when I needed to stop pushing. I also learned that others are understanding of illness. Everyone gets sick sometimes and if you are open and honest about the limitations of illness, and can give clients an idea of when you’ll be back on track with their project, they are considerate. Many will commiserate and wish you well. Their deadlines become more flexible to accommodate your downtime.

When a deadline really isn’t flexible, and you do need to push through, accept that you can’t do your best work. Ask for help when you can. And be thankful that at least you can still be at home in your fuzzy slippers instead of dragging through peak hour to an office building full of people who will spread more germs to and from you.

Get well soon!

Sharon Hurley Hall
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March 16, 2010 at 13:15

Thanks, Rebecca. I think you’re right – asking for help is a great way to avoid missing deadlines.

George Angus
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March 13, 2010 at 12:09

Dana,

Hope you’re mended soon. Sometimes it’s tough to do all of this when you’re feeling GREAT!

George
.-= George Angus´s last blog ..Caution, Book Review Crossing =-.

Sue Jeffels March 13, 2010 at 16:45

Hi Dana and Sharon,

hope you are both feeling better soon.

sue

Sharon Hurley Hall
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March 16, 2010 at 13:15

Thanks, Sue.

Carrie March 13, 2010 at 19:37

Feel better, Dana! I hope it all shakes out all right.

Dan Smith March 15, 2010 at 20:03

I hope you’re feeling better, Dana (you too, Sharon).

I’ve got all the symptoms of a cold starting – sore throat, fuzzy head and sniffly nose. I’m working harder and longer than usual at the minute so I can afford to take a little time off if the cold does come through.

Saying that, I’m wondering if I’m doing more harm than good, working longer hours and not letting my body rest?

Hmm – what to do!
.-= Dan Smith´s last blog ..Keep on track with World Superbike News =-.

Sharon Hurley Hall
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March 16, 2010 at 13:16

Thanks, Dan. My approach is to do the essentials and find time for rest where I can.

Dan Smith March 18, 2010 at 12:52

I just thought I’d pop back and pass on the news that that cold did come through and has developed into full blown man flu.

Unfortunately, my work is going to have to be put on the back burner temporarily – bed, duvet, tissues and a lot of TLC for at least the next 24 hours I think!
.-= Dan Smith´s last blog ..The Backside of Water blog is not what you think… =-.

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